10-26-24

ECCLESIOLOGICAL ETCHING
October 26, 2024
Yesterday, I wrote about grief and the need for us to hold a very expansive understanding of grief—the necessary and healthy God-given tool for us to use as we move from loss to wholeness. In a recent conversation, I was reminded that the pathway is neither straight nor smooth. And one person’s journey is not going to look like the next person's. Yesterday, I flew to Amarillo for the Regional Assembly. I caught my flight at Bush Intercontinental Airport. Another church member flew a different airline out of Hobby. On Facebook, I noticed folks driving to Amarillo for the Regional Assembly, though most of them live a little closer than Houston. Rarely is there one way of getting to a destination, and the many pathways are determined by a long list of unique needs and circumstances. The pathway from loss to wholeness is determined by another very long list of unique needs and circumstances. We can learn from others, but we can never assume that their path can be our path. A previous loss might have paved the way, making the path easier. Or, some unresolved grief from a previous loss, might have created numerous obstacles along the journey. Most importantly, be patient with yourself, ask for help along the way, and do not be hard on yourself when you need to take a little break. And of course, remember that you have a partner in the journey, even when you go down a path that is not helpful. God will remain faithful to you with love and mercy, gifts that will be essential in finding the destination.

You are merciful and kind, O Holy Guide and Friend. Thank you for your faithfulness even when I am frustrated and feeling as if I am going nowhere. Nudge me when I need a nudge, and hold me when I simply need to feel your comforting Spirit wrapped around me. Amen.